When Muslim Teens Rebel: Causes and Solutions

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Today’s teens face many issues as they try to navigate through peer pressure and parental expectations, all the while developing their sense of identity. It is a tough journey, that nonetheless, has to be traversed. Parents can either provide assistance to help their teen mature or use harsh methods that only make their teen’s path all the more difficult.

Dr. Beshir brings forth advice for Muslim parents, using the Qur’an and the authentic traditions of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), as a foundation to navigate the many challenges of the teen years. He counsels parents to take a more empathetic view of what their teens face in North America (without compromising on boundaries). Cultural expectations, based on the way parents were raised in other countries, need to be replaced by a more nuanced view of the realities of North American culture – the only culture their teens know. In addition, an approach based on patience, wisdom, and compassion will be a boon. Harsh approaches, the chronic use of punishment and unrealistic expectations lead to rebellion.

Dr. Beshir’s extensive experience in counselling North American Muslim families comes to the fore in this book. It is a must-read for those who are trying to maintain basic Islamic principles without alienating their teen.

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